Marriage
Our
two churches make the most splendid setting for anyone contemplating marriage
and we will be pleased to do everything we can to make you marriage service
very special.
St.
Mary’s on Overton Drive, Wanstead’s
Historic Parish Church is Redbridge’s only Grade One listed building, and
still retains its original character of 1790. With its gallery it can seat
500 but it is as comfortable and pleasant with 30. Its fine organ speaks clearly
into the acoustics of this elegant Georgian church. A small carillon of four
bells can be rung before and after the service.
Christ
Church on Wanstead Place is the
most impressive Victorian Gothic Church designed by Sir George Gilbert Scott
and with its high spire dominates the green on which it sits. It is surrounded
by its own well-tended garden. Again although a large building a smaller congregation
will not feel lost in the church. The church has a late Victorian Organ and
a full peel of bells, which can be rung before and after the service.
Some
Frequently Asked Questions:
How
much does a marriage service cost? The cost including the legal fees, the organist, flowers
and permission to video the service is around £560. It can be less if you
want a service without music. There is an additional cost for the carillon
at St. Mary’s and bells at Christ Church.
I
have been previously married and am now divorced. Can I be married? The
parish has an agreed policy for those seeking marriage who have been previously
married and whose former partner is still living. Provided the new relationship
was not the direct cause of the breakdown of the former marriage, and children
from the marriage are being properly cared for and there is no open scandal
associated with the breakdown of the marriage we are in principle willing
to marry you in church. One of the clergy will need to speak with you in some
more detail and we will need to see your decree absolute. Marriage is not
usually solemnised in church after more than one divorce.
Can
I video the service? Yes – permission to do this is included in the basic
fee.
Can
I throw confetti? Yes – but please away from the church door!
I
have a friend who would like to read or sing at the service?
We are very happy for this to happen in the service. Our director is music
is always happy to help in choosing music for your service.
Can
we have a reading other from the bible (a poem for example)? One
reading from the bible is always included but it is quite possible to include
another appropriate reading.
We
don’t live in Wanstead can we be married in the parish? Yes…
but if you live outside the parish you will need to be on the Electoral
Roll in order for us to be legally able to marry you in this parish. To do
this one of you will need to have been baptised and to have attended services
of a regular basis for a period of six months. The clergy will be happy to
advise you on this.
If
you have other questions please email rector@parishofwanstead.org.
To
arrange a wedding:
Please
come to Christ Church at 8 pm on a Tuesday. If this time is impossible for
you please telephone or email one of the clergy and we will be happy to meet
with you.